why is having a title so important

Why do people think titles are what helps to build bonds and make relationships stronger or even make people think there is a lot of trust in the relationship. Trust is not built easily for some bt others its like cutting a pie. If somebody tell another individual they are not looking for a relationship or ready for one they just want to have sex. Sex is a bonus to any relationship unless that is what it is based around. You should be able to talk, laugh, cry, comfort, or even joke with their partner. Why do some people think others are supposed to sit around and wait for the other to come to their senses. You have got to be crazy to give somebody more than a year to either leave you alone or stay around. The way I see it while you are dealing with the pain of confusion and emotions you take that time to work on yourself. As you work on yourself you will eventually find happiness. Sometimes you fall in love with somebody who has not quite figured out what they want in life other than money, sex and whatever else they decide. You have only two choices and that is deal with all the bullshit that cpmes with the relationship or move on. Then you have the times when everything is just right but things just dont come out well when planned. This is a situation where you have to have faith in true love, loyalty and trust but sometimes things go wrong and you cant seem to make it right. There is nothing wrong with being true friends before taking things to the next step. Sometimes you may get the urge to push forward but thats when you show your true strength. When you hold back emotional and sexual urges you will realize exactly how strong you are and you will no longer allow certsin things to be a issue in your life. Losing somebody that means so much to you can hurt so bad but nobody ever realizes exactly how much that someone means until they are no longer in their life. So before making a decision on whether or not this person is boyfriend/girlfriend material make sure they have more qualities you like before placing a title on things. When you put a title on things some people take things too far and try to control you in some type of way. Having a title is not a secure way of preventing somebody from cheating. All a title means is that one or both of you are feeling the same about each other or one feels mor for the other. So please choose wisely with your life decisions because you never really know a person until you get a chance to see them in the light of day. In the words of my grandmother you never know if they are a wolf in sheeps clothing.